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家庭自癒計劃父母教育培訓 Family Healing Program

父母,是家庭的建構者,在成為父母之前,夫妻雙方是否同心,對於家庭和婚姻有沒有同樣的認知?如果您想讓自己的家庭更幸福,讓所有努力的付出可以得到回報,那麼鼓勵您加入父母培訓的行列,一起共同學習,提升幸福的能力。

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何謂家庭自癒?

這是指父母在更有意識的情況下教導孩子保持覺知,聆聽內心的聲音,跟父母共同體驗生命的真諦。

目的是讓孩子有自我保護的能力,除此之外,能感同身受他人,具備高度的感知力,提高藝術特質,從小就養成建設性思維模式,同時父母也以同樣的方式過生活。

過去傳統的家庭文化,父母扮演高高在上的大人,孩子只能聽從大人的安排與規定,再加上為了生活打拼,多數父母在孩子身邊的時間並不多,因此孩子與父母之間的互動層面,著重在學業成績上居多,為了將來出人頭地,不希望孩子過苦日子的期許,往往限制住了孩子與生俱來的天賦,更嚴重的是扭曲了每一個孩子內在的本質,而疏忽了生命讓孩子帶給父母的禮物。

社會的變動性越來越大,競爭激烈,這不僅是大人要面對的,同時也是孩子的將來,因此在孩子天真無邪的階段,父母能透過學習,用更高意識層次的方式來跟孩子互動,這樣會讓整個家庭維持在高頻率的和諧狀態中,孩子純淨的心靈與父母豐富人生經驗的交織,會讓孩子超越傳統家庭教育,發展出無可限量的才能。

在這樣的家庭裡,情緒和感受是坦誠相對的,自我的成長不會受到限制,孩子在自由開放又安全的照護下,純淨的心靈不會受到污染,同時也會是父母學習的榜樣。

在這樣的家庭裏,無論是誰在外面遭遇到了困難或阻礙,回到家都能完全放鬆的打開心與家人一起共同面對和討論,這是一個成熟的家庭所具備的自癒功能,沒有誰會去控制誰,或是逼迫誰,而是會相互體諒與支援。

父母會清楚的知道自己是孩子的典範,重視自己的言行舉止與態度,更關鍵的是在覺知中向孩子學習與討論。每一個孩子的心中都藏著許多話,如果父母懂得適當的引導,孩子心中的話語會令大人們想像不到,只是傳統的家庭裡,有話語權的通常是父母,經常受到壓抑的孩子,自然而然就不懂如何表達自己,這對求學階段的孩子是相當不好的,不僅會影響孩子的自信和學習力,以後進到職場也很難有好的發揮。

自癒型家庭守護著家庭的基本功能,是家人們的避風港,更是安全與歸屬感的來源,在得到允許和接納的環境中成長,自我的發展不會受到限制,心靈能保持在純淨的狀態,就不會投射負面的能量到他人身上,人生的道路必然會通暢順利,對人類做出更大的貢獻。

培養有自癒能力的父母是每個家庭的基礎

有自癒能力的父母,夫妻之間的關係必然是親密信任的。就像是合作伙伴一樣,共同在經營家庭,傳統家庭中丈夫和妻子的角色,在自癒型家庭有相當大的顛覆,會根據兩人的性格和特質來分配家務,可以說是具備高度學習力的伙伴,而不只是侷限在兩情相悅的愛情裡的兩個人。

戀人和父母是完全不同的兩種角色,有些人的性格並不適合婚姻,但如果照著傳統的步伐發展而成立家庭,那麼可想而知,幸福會是短暫的,若是此時還有孩子,這樣的家庭組成就會是造成傷害的原生家庭之一。

推動家庭自癒計劃的初衷

2020年,因為疫情的管制措施,很多人從工作崗位回到家,連續十幾天,甚至更長的24小時相處,所有藏起來的問題全都冒出來了,另一方面,從社會的視角看來,大多數家庭不是婆媳問題,親子問題,就是夫妻關係出現問題,幾乎很難找到真正幸福快樂的一家人。而多數的人居然會認為這是理所當然的現象,更矛盾的是步入家庭的那場婚禮,當我們給新人送上祝福時,不正是更大的反諷嗎?

2021年,這個啟動計劃希望喚醒重視家庭教育的每一個人,安定富足的社會,基礎必定是建築在幸福和樂的家庭上,我們將在2021年的四月開始提供自癒型家庭的父母孵化,願意參與本基金會專屬訓練的父母們,歡迎填表申請加入,只要父母雙方其中一人的年齡介於28~40歲之間,且育有子女,父母與子女同住(單親家庭為下一階段目標)我們將提供一整年的教育訓練給父母們。

第一階段目標是完成200個模範家庭的訓練,養成200對示範型父母,

培訓時程:每週一次,每次3小時,分為四個階段,每階段12堂課/共48堂課/總時數:144小時。

培訓模式:線上直播教學與線下一對一個別指導

培訓費用:每人1.2萬港幣(報名成為示範父母,基金會全額贊助。)

What is Family Therapy?

It stands for the parent teaching their children to be more sensitive and aware of their inner voice, and to experience the true meaning of life with their parents.

The goal is to provide children to have the ability to protect themselves, moreover, to empathize with others, and have the sense of perception, for artistic qualities, and develop a constructive thinking model from a young age along with the parents.

In the medieval tradition family culture, parents played the role of superior adults and children could only obey the arrangements and rules accordingly. In addition, to make a living, most parents didn’t spend much time with their children; the interaction between children and parents emphasis on academic performance. To ensure success in the future with the expectation for the children to live without a harsh life often limits the children’s innate talents. Moreover, it distorts the inner nature of every child and neglects life, the gift from children to parents.

As society becomes more volatile, and the competition is fierce, not only adults but also the children are facing such experience. Therefore, when children are innocent, the parents should interact with them through higher levels of consciousness. Thus the interaction will keep the whole family in a high-frequency harmonious state. The interweaving of children’s pure heart and parents’ rich life experience will allow children to go beyond traditional family education and develop unlimited talents.

In such a family, where emotions and feelings are frank and relative, inner growth is limitless, and children’s pure hearts will not be polluted under free, open, caring and safe surroundings they will be examples for the parents to learn from.

In such a family, regardless of which member encounters difficulties or obstacles outside, he/she can be completely relaxed and discuss with his/her family with an open heart. This is the healing function of a mature family. No one will control or persecute one another, but will be understanding and supportive with each other.

The parents will know that they are role models for their children; to value their own words, actions and attitudes. More importantly, learn and discuss from their children in awareness. If the parents know proper guidance, there are many words in the children’s hearts that are beyond adults’ imationation. However, in the traditional families, only the parents have rights to speak, and children are often suppressed naturally without knowing how to express themselves. This is not positive for children at the schooling stage. It will not only affect children's self-confidence and learning ability, but it will also be difficult for them to perform well in the workplace in the future.

The function of a family therapy is to guard the family member as a safe haven, a source of security and a sense of belonging. Growing up in an environment that is allowing and accepting, there are no restrictions for self development; when the mind can remain in a pure state, it will not project negative energy to others. The road of life will inevitably be smooth, and giving great contributions for the human kind.

Cultivating parents with healing ability is the foundation of every family

The relationship between husband and wife of a healing family must be intimate and trusting; running the family like partners. In a traditional family, it’s the character of husband and wife, but in contrast, the healing family will allocate house work according to their personalities and characteristics. Partners are with high learning ability, not just two people confined in love.

Lovers and parents are two completely different roles. Some people’s personalities are not suitable for marriage, but if you develop a family according to the traditional pace, you can imagine that happiness will be short-lived. If there are children at this time, such a family composition would be the original families that are causing harm.

The Intention of promoting the family healing program

In 2020, due to the control measures of the epidemic, many people return home from work and spend more than ten days. After staying together for longer than 24hours, all the hidden problems had emerged. As well, from a social perspective, either the families have problems with the in-laws, or have problems in the relationship between the couples. It is difficult to find a family with happiness. Most people actually think this is normal. It is very controversial and ironic to all of the blessings that are sent to the new couples in the wedding to enter the family, isn’t it?

In 2021, the launching of this plan hopes to awake everyone who values family education. The foundation of a stable and prosperous society must be based on happy and peaceful families. We will start recruiting model parents in March 2021. Parents who are willing to participate in the exclusive training of this foundation are welcome to join the volunteer team. We will provide a series of education and training to parents and put them on the watch list. The goal of the first stage is to complete the training of 200 model families and cultivate 200 pairs of model parents. The prerequisites for participation are those who are newly married for more than one year, are preparing to or are pregnant, or have a next generation in the family who are over three years old. All training is online.

Training schedule: once a week, 3 hours each time, divided into four stages, each stage has 12 lessons / a total of 48 lessons / total hours: 144 hours.

Training method: online education and guidance

Training fee: 12,000 Hong Kong dollars per person (sign up as a model parent, full sponsorship by the foundation.)

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